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I don't know much about short length bowls! It won't be much of a difficult for them to play us if we bowl short because we don't have alot of pace in the bowl.
Don't bowl short; just bowl a good line and length, and it will be hard for them to get you away, even if the ball is not that fast.
So don't you think keeping 3 fielders in the off and bowling bit wide of off stump will be a good idea?
No. The girls are national players, and will relish an open field on the leg side. They can easily take a ball outside off stump and put it through midwicket, or behind square.
For spinners 2-2 field with attacking fielding places.
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Good idea. But Don't be too defensive. Stop those singles.
I will open the bowling with a Arpit and the middle overs I'll bowl spin.
Ok ... but find out who their best batswomen are, and bowl to them. Don't bowl spin, do what you do best, which is medium pace. You and Arpit should be trying to shut down their best players. They won't be able to drive you and Arpit for four or six.
Both the parents will go last
Is your Dad playing? If he is, you should open with him, to get your team off to a good start. Arpit and Lahiru can provide stability in the middle part, and Shubum can bat with the female player, to end things. The female player can gather three runs for every single, and depending on the state of the game, Shubum can open his shoulders and try and pick up the run rate. It could be a good combination. You guys would be better off separated. Also having the inexperienced parents go last could lead the team to disaster. They need an experienced partner.
Remember, if you don't stop the girls from taking singles they will beat you. They hit six singles an over, and get 18 for it. This is their strategy. If you close in around them, they will panic and attempt to hit big, which is something they can't do. Eventually they'll play a false shot, make a bad run, or provide a catch off the wall. Show the girls your attacking moves, and they'll back down.
Boys should beat the girls.